探討雙性戀：身份認同與社會挑戰的個人旅程

In this colorful and diverse world, everyone should have the right to live their lives as who they are, free from prejudice and discrimination. For the LGBTQ+ community, every step of the journey towards self-acceptance and social recognition is full of challenges and triumphs. For bisexuals in particular, their experiences are often misunderstood and ignored, making their search for self-identity and a sense of belonging to the community even more difficult.

在酷兒學生中心，Skylar Rathvon和Vansh Khokhani的領導下，我們看到了一個積極的力量，一個讓每個人都能感受到被接納和支持的空間。他們的照片，由Dong Woo Im拍攝，不僅捕捉了他們的自信和驕傲，也傳達了一個強烈的信息：在這裡，每個人都可以是自己。

9月和10月，對LGBTQ+社群來說，是兩個特別的月份。9月的雙性戀意識週和10月的LGBT歷史月，以及10月11日的全國出櫃日，都是慶祝多樣性和推動平等的重要時刻。這些日子不僅提醒我們過去的鬥爭和成就，也激勵我們繼續前進，為一個更加包容和理解的世界而努力。

As a bisexual woman, I am well aware of the internal struggles and external pressures I face on the road to accepting my sexuality. Ever since I was a child, society's stereotypes and expectations of sexuality have been everywhere, making it difficult for us to find our place in the world. But when I was finally able to say "I am bisexual" out loud, the relief and freedom was priceless.

However, even after coming out, bisexuals still face challenges from society and within the LGBTQ+ community. We are often misunderstood and labeled and forced to prove that our sexuality is "real". This constant questioning and rejection leaves us feeling alone and unappreciated.

But we cannot let these challenges define us. Our bisexual identities are our truths and should not be erased by anyone's prejudices. We must continue to speak up for ourselves, support each other, and find our strength and voice in this diverse community.

So let's celebrate our diversity and uniqueness this Bisexual Awareness Week and Coming Out Day, and every day. Let's stand up proudly and tell the world that we are the B in LGBTQ+, that our existence is real, and that our voices matter.

We've got a long way to go together, but as long as we're united, there's nothing we can't overcome. Happy Bisexual Awareness Week and Happy Coming Out Day. I am so proud of everyone who belongs to this beautiful and colorful community.

探索同性戀身份和關係的復雜性：艾米專欄精選回答

In today's society, the journey to find love and understanding can be a challenging one for many, especially for those whose sexual orientation or gender identity is slightly different from the mainstream. Recently, we received a letter from one of our readers, Bi Qiqi, whose experience and confusion touched our heartstrings and made us realize that in this diverse world, the journey to find true love sometimes requires more courage and wisdom.

畢好奇是一位58歲的同性戀者，他在成年後的大部分時間裡認定自己是雙性戀。他曾與女性和男性都建立了重要的關係。然而，15年前，在他上一次戀愛之後，他變得無法相處，基本上是無性戀，除了幾次隨機的與男人的勾搭。現在，畢好奇感到他想要另一段重要的關係，並且他覺得這段關係需要和一個男人在一起。

畢好奇面臨的「問題」是，在公眾眼中，他不算是同性戀。女人總是對他感興趣，但男人似乎沒有意識到他有空或可能感興趣。這讓他在結識潛在伴侶的同時，感到困惑和無助。

Against this background, we offer a few suggestions to Picchi. First, since he is interested in a serious relationship with a man, he should make every effort to get involved with any local organizations where he might meet other gay men. Additionally, online apps and "matchmaking" sites such as OkCupid, EHarmony, Silversingles, and Match.com offer LGBTQ matchmaking opportunities, which are great ways to find a partner.

According to a study released in 2023 by the Pew Research Center, LGB adults are more likely than heterosexual adults to report having used a dating website or app. This suggests that for people like Picchi, the online dating experience can be a highly effective way to learn and find a partner.

In this diverse and ever-changing world, everyone should have the opportunity to find their own love and happiness. Pikki's story reminds us that regardless of sexual orientation or gender identity, the search for love requires courage, an open mind and continuous effort. We hope that Bichai will find his other half and that we can all give him the greatest support and understanding in this journey.

職業賽車手喬丹·蘭德透過彩虹頭盔分享出櫃旅程

In today's society, coming out can still be a difficult and challenging process for many people. For those who are ready to share who they really are, it's especially important to find a way to express yourself. Jordan Rand, a professional racer and champion of the Racing Pride community, shows us through her personal story that sometimes a simple symbol, like a rainbow, can be a powerful communication tool.

喬丹在一月份的Instagram帖子中寫道：「如果你準備好出櫃，但找不到合適的語言，彩虹可以幫助你。」她在帖子中分享了自己以雙性戀身份出櫃的旅程，並透過一段影片展示了她戴著彩虹閃閃發光的賽車頭盔在賽道上駕駛的情景。這個動作不僅是她個人身份的宣示，也是對LGBTQ+社區的支持。

Jordan shares, "My first step was to quietly add "bi" to my IG profile without saying anything to anyone, and then I customized my helmet. These little signals can spark conversations." Her story shows us that even the smallest steps can have a huge impact and ultimately lead to more support and understanding.

Her custom helmet debuted in 2022, when she first shared the official post and the personal meaning behind the rainbow design on Instagram. She admits she never felt "happy enough" to wear the pride flag and was worried about embarrassing her family. However, she eventually overcame these fears and was brave enough to go public with her identity.

In addition to being a race car driver, Jordan is a model and has an extensive background in sports. Her story is not only a demonstration of personal bravery, but also a show of support for the LGBTQ+ community as a whole. In the racing world, the re-flying of the rainbow flag has always been an important symbol of pride and alliance. Well-known athletes such as Lewis Hamilton and Sebastian Vettel have expressed their support for the LGBTQ community, further demonstrating the importance of inclusion and diversity in sports.

Jordan Rand's story is an inspiring example of how to express your true identity through small actions and symbols, and provides inspiration for those searching for ways to come out of the closet. Her courage and determination has not only helped herself, but has brought positive energy and hope to the entire LGBTQ+ community.

新報告揭示：未出櫃男同性戀和雙性戀在麻疹疫情中缺乏治療接觸

THURSDAY, Jan. 18, 2024 (HealthDay News) - In the midst of the recent global outbreak of measles, a new study has uncovered a concerning phenomenon: many undisclosed gay and bisexual men are failing to receive treatment for infectious measles. Experts say this is not because they fear seeking treatment will reveal their sexual orientation, but because their isolation from the wider LGBT community has resulted in limited access to treatment information.

紐約州伊薩卡康乃爾大學傳播學博士後研究員Joel Le Forestier是這項研究的主要作者。他表示：“我們從這項研究中學到的教訓是，融入社區對於獲得治療和資訊是非常有益的。” Le Forestier進一步解釋說，成為社區的一部分不僅能夠讓人們了解到公共衛生資源，這是其中之一的好處。

這項新發現於1月12日發表在《心理科學》期刊上。研究團隊在2022年8月MPOX爆發高峰期間以及兩個月後，分別對來自澳洲、英國、加拿大和美國的同性戀、雙性戀和性少數男性進行了線上問卷調查。

Le Forestier and his team initially thought that not being openly identified might be a deterrent to some men seeking MPOX treatment. This hypothesis stemmed from his observations during his doctoral studies in Toronto, when he noticed that the majority of people waiting in line for the measles vaccine were openly gay and bisexual men.

However, a friend of Le Forestier's offered an alternative theory that these unidentified men may not even know about the MPOX vaccine because they are not involved in the community and therefore do not have access to these resources.

The results of the study seem to support this theory, Le Forestier said, "We found that those who were not publicly identified did worry about being 'out of the loop' by seeking out MPOX resources, but that this was not directly related to their reduced likelihood of accessing these resources. In fact, if they knew that MPOX treatments were available, they were inclined to seek them out, regardless of whether they were publicly identified or not."

Therefore, the question of how to provide information about MPOX prevention and treatment to at-risk populations who are not deeply involved in the LGBT community has become an important one, and Le Forestier argues that it has to do with knowledge of the resources and the level of community involvement, and not just out of fear of being exposed.

The U.S. Centers for Disease Control and Prevention provides more information about MPOX and its prevention and care, providing an important health resource for the public.

Source : Cornell University, Press Release, January 16, 2024

探討酷兒社群中的雙性戀恐懼症與多重吸引力光譜的現實

In today's society, the topic of Multiple Spectrums of Attraction (MSPEC) is gaining attention, especially in the cool kid community. This community includes people who are attracted to different genders, such as bisexuals and pansexuals. However, these people often experience a particular kind of discrimination within their own community - biphobia.

雙相恐懼症，或稱雙性戀恐懼症，是指對雙性戀者的不喜歡或偏見。這種偏見不僅存在於異性戀主導的社會中，甚至在LGBTQ+社群內部也是一個問題。一些人誤以為雙性戀者的生活更容易，因為他們可以選擇與異性戀者交往，從而避免了直接面對同性戀者所經歷的歧視。這種觀點忽略了雙性戀者自身所面臨的獨特挑戰和歧視。

根據石牆的一項研究，雙性戀男性和女性在酷兒群體中遭受的壓迫和歧視遠高於同性戀者。這種內部的歧視導致雙性戀者在出櫃、尋求醫療幫助、工作場所和家庭中都面臨更大的困難。此外，雙性戀者也表現出更高的焦慮、憂鬱、飲食失調和自殘行為的比例。

These statistics reveal a disturbing fact: even in cool communities that seek inclusion and acceptance, bisexuals face oppression and ostracism from their peers. This phenomenon reflects a broader problem of division and inequality within the community.

In order to truly achieve liberation and equality for the cool kids community, we must recognize and address these internal issues of discrimination. This means actively listening to and supporting the voices of MSPEC individuals and combating biphobia within the community. Only when we recognize each person's unique experiences and challenges, and work together to create a more inclusive and supportive environment, can we truly achieve liberation for all.

In this process, we must remember that suffering should not be compared. Recognizing and resolving bipolar disorder does not mean less attention to the experiences of other members of the cool kids community. Rather, it's an opportunity to understand and support each other more deeply, so that together we can build a more equitable and inclusive community.

Every voice counts on this journey. If you want to share your story or seek support, please be brave and step forward. You are not alone, together we can make a difference.

從摩門教徒到公開的同性戀父親：德文·吉比的自我接納之旅

In our First Steps series, we explore the stories of men who have taken the courageous first step to change their bodies, minds, and lives. These stories are not just about change, but about the courage to begin the journey. Today, we're sharing the story of Devon Gibby, 36, a man who left religion and embraced his sexuality.

德文在耶穌基督後期聖徒教會（通常稱為摩門教）中長大，這個環境塑造了他的生活和選擇。從小，他就意識到自己是同性戀，但在他的宗教環境中，對於性別認同的健康探索是被禁止的，更不用說找到可以交流的同性戀者了。德文一直夢想成為一名父親，但在他的認知中，同性戀父親似乎是不存在的。因此，當他在2008年21歲從摩門教傳教任務返回後，他娶了一名女性，很快他們就有了兩個孩子。

Marriage and fatherhood led Devon to question his faith and the message he wanted to convey to his children. He began questioning his faith while studying creative writing and critical thinking at Brigham Young University in Utah. This new way of thinking soon crumbled his worldview and he began to explore his sexuality more freely.

Devon first came out to his roommate at Brigham Young University, who was also the medium through which he and his wife met. Although the friend didn't know how to react, he expressed support and understanding. Later, Devon came out to his bishop and his wife, and these conversations did not go well. His wife even wanted to help him "recover". Nevertheless, their marriage lasted five years until Devon realized that his homosexuality was a part of him that he could never change.

In Mormonism, husbands and wives are "sealed" together, meaning they will be together in eternity, so divorce brings great shame. Despite this, Devon and his wife decided to separate, realizing that they could have a better relationship as friends and co-parents.

Devon realized that coming to terms with his entire identity would mean leaving Mormonism. He began living openly as a gay man and began dating men. This came as a shock to his family, as there was little room for homosexuals within the Mormon Church. Devon's coming out was seen as a rejection of his community.

Despite the challenges, Devon found a community, and he began writing a blog through which he met other Mormon men who were not in the closet. They called themselves "MoHos" and met regularly to discuss the intersection of sex and spirituality. Devon also sought out gay fathers on social media and gradually became the kind of man he hadn't been when he was younger.

Devon's story is about coming to terms with who he really is and taking the courageous first step to change his life. His experience reminds us that while change may require sacrifice, the pursuit of our true selves is worth it.