Title: Facing Her Son's Gay Identity: A Mother's Struggle and Growth

In today's society, the increasing diversity of family structures and values presents both challenges and opportunities for growth for many families. Recently, a reader named "No Proud Mom" turned to renowned columnist Amy Dickinson for advice, and her story touched the hearts of many.

In her letter, "No Proud Mom" mentions that her son, Jack, came out to her five years ago, which saddened her because she had hoped that her son would lead a more traditional life. More recently, Jack's desire to bring his partner, Samuel, home for family events has left her feeling conflicted and uneasy.

In her reply, Amy reminded No Proud Mom that accepting her son's sexuality is not about seeing it as an issue, but rather accepting Jack for who he is. Amy emphasized that Jack's choice to bring his boyfriend home to meet his family was in itself a sign of tradition. She also mentioned that any sexually active adult can contract an STD, and that the best response to violence in the gay community is to be a part of the change, not fear it.

In addition, Amy recommends that No Proud Moms spend more time with Jack and Samuel and try to be a more supportive mom. She also recommends PFLAG.org, a national organization that provides support to parents and family members to help them learn more about sex, address fears and answer questions.

Another reader shared a religious problem he encountered at a family gathering. When he refused to bow his head when his brother-in-law began praying, it caused some tension in the family. Amy believes it is good manners to respect the faith practices of others, even if you don't agree or participate in their beliefs.

These stories and Amy's responses remind us that understanding, respect and communication are key when dealing with issues of family, faith and sexual orientation. Every family is unique, and learning to accept and embrace these differences can make family relationships stronger and more harmonious.